THE POLITICS OF Gh LADIES

Relationships are part of the human life. To many, building and sustaining a relationship is tantamount to success more so when the relationship in question is one that could lead to marriage- a life-long companionship.

In this post, l espouse the behavioural patterns of Ghanaian ladies and uncover reasons why most Ghanaian ladies tend to behave in certain manners. I actually did not do much on this post except to compile the views of my analysts on the issue, in this light, l introduce to you my panellists; Stranger, Benbrittle, Abodie, Annor, Raphael, and Dr Steve all of University of Health and AlliedScience (UHAS).

The Nature of Gh Ladies

How are Gh ladies really like?

‘’like all ladies over the world, ladies are somehow peculiar in nature, even though they do not have any textbook nature. It is just a matter of getting to understand them better’’ Dr Steve.

‘’nature of Gh ladies? Simply complex’’ Stranger  

Stranger; an experienced lover

Indicators That She Likes You

What are some signs do help guys know a lady is interested in them?

‘’ok this is easy; she gives you absolute control over her life. She could go as far as allowing you to choose her outfits for her’’ Benbrittle

‘’eye contact is key, you would normally catch her stealing a peep at you. In addition, she would always want to hear your voice and this usually is when you were in a friendship before she develops an affection towards you’’ Stranger

Abodie confirms and adds a bit to Stranger’s theory ‘’. . . she definitely would always want to hear your voice but more importantly, she loves being around you’’

‘’times have changed, the ways that a lady behaves when she likes you is different from what happened in the past. It is an evolution that has taken place’’ Annor

‘’when she likes you, she is always the first to comment and ask about your social media posts and photos’’ Dr Steve 

the Biblical Dr Steve

‘’she constantly queries you on your preferences when it comes to choosing a spouse. Also she asks about your past relationship and tells you a lot about herself’’ Raphael

Why Gh Ladies Cheat

Why do some ladies choose to have spare parts?

‘’girls are like trotro. They sometimes deliberately pick overloading though they know it is inimical’’ Socrates

‘’there are varied reasons why ladies in general cheat. Lack of affection is one, and to others it just psychological- no apparent reason for cheating’’ Benbrittle

‘’ladies cheat because they do not know what they want. Most ladies believe in worldly delusions that is the underlining factor that causes them to lose their focus and thus cheat’’

On this issue, Annor and Raphael stipulates ‘’when you do not show her affection and give her attention’’

‘’lack of respect towards could compel her to cheat’’ Abodie 

Abodie, an ardent observer of ladies

‘’when you do not make love to her, she is likely to cheat. I once lost a girlfriend because l never kissed her. Lack of kissing in a relationship sends the relationship bankrupt. Another factor that could cause her to cheat is when she has had a very fractious relationship in the past’’ Stranger

  The Magic Manure

For every relationship to burgeon, there are dos and dons. My guys have their take;

‘’if you really want your relationship to grow, do not talk about your past relationship especially when it was one that had a wonderful beginning. Appreciate her efforts to look good and always compliment her. Furthermore be careful with the words you use especially when you are having an altercation; most Gh ladies do not forget easily’’ Stranger

In agreement with Stranger, Abodie throws more light on the compliments ‘’ be specific on her body parts with the compliments and also, be gentle, sweet and nice with her. Always be willing to accommodate her’’

Annor, a relationship enthusiast

Annor ‘’ pay attention to her and do not address her in a rude manner even if she does something wrong’’

Benbrittle ‘’be real with her, when she discovers that you are fake, you are doomed’’

Raphael ‘’it is just a formality. You ought to be kind and gentle towards her’’

The Pretentious ‘l will think about it’

It is common to get a response of ‘l will think about it’ when one proposes to ladies these days? What is it really about the ‘l will think about it’??

To me, ‘’when she says ‘l will think about it, it is an indirect yes. You can go and party. It is just that most ladies would not give you an instant yes because of the perception that most of such ladies are cheap’’ says Abodie

Benbrittle thinks ‘’a lady says l will think about it because she just wants to add a bit of value to herself and raise her stock so the guy does not take her for granted during the course of the relationship’’

Stranger also thinks in the same line as Ben and Abodie. . . ‘’Gh ladies in general do not swallow their pride and say yes immediately upon the proposal of a guy. ‘l will think about it’ is just a political clause ladies use to use protect their pride. Just do well to put in measures in place to prevent her from extending the ‘thinking’ period and she is all yours’’ 

Socrates, guest contributor

Dr Steve admits the assessment of my previous analysts but holds somewhat different view. . . ‘’there is the possibility a guy will think a lady is cheap when she says yes instantly to a proposal albeit most ladies are aware a guy is about to propose even before he does. Even the lady eagle tests the man eagle before they mate by dropping a rock for him to catch. It is all about persistent, the lady must know you are in for real. In furtherance some ladies wish to respect the feelings of guys who have been long being their friends before the proposal, and in this case, she may be genuinely not interested’’

Crazy? Daring? Courageous?

What do you make out of a lady who proposes to a guy she likes?

‘’oh she is courageous. I like such ladies’’ Stranger

‘’well it is a scholarship, thank you’’ Benbrittle

‘’uhhmm l do not see anything wrong with it, splendid’’ Abodie

‘’a lady who proposes to a guy is in love. It is just unfortunate must guys take advantage of the situation. It is better for the lady to just put in her best and allow the guy to propose rather. Personally, if a lady proposes to me l am not going to accept it- the relationship does not end anywhere’’ Dr Steve

Annor ‘’ebi vim this’’

Raphael ‘’ hahahahh l think it is a bold step’’ 

Raphael, believes Gh ladies are the best

Finally

Final words from the panel.

‘’Gh ladies should not date just for dating sake. They should make painstaking effort to remain single and start dating by age 22 because they would be grown enough to make matured decisions. Also, all ladies l employ all ladies to be Christ like and not give themselves to guys before marriage’’  

Annor ‘’Gh ladies should take initiative, they should just muster the courage and propose to guys who make them (ladies) happy’’

Raphael ‘’l would like to advise Gh ladies to be humble, just give attention to the guys and see what next’’

Abodie could not agree with Raphael more . . . ‘’l second Raphael. Gh ladies should give a fair chance to every guy. Ladies should not be deceived by money because the guy with the cash may just want to hit and run’’

Benbrittle, always full of fun

Stranger ‘’ Gh ladies should change their mentality. There is a misconception that the moment a guy approaches you, he is interested in making you his girlfriend whilst he may just want to ask about the direction to an unknown destination he is heading to’’

Not all the escapades of Gh ladies can be enlisted in the one blog post. There are many tales that we would like to share with you. I thank all my analysts for their candid submissions. Keep watching this space . . . #in7tweets